Self Pity vs Self Love…

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Unnecessary criticism, verbal cruelty, sarcasm and malicious gossip demeans the speaker, making him less, darkening his aura and encourages a habit to form… but even his unspoken words travel through the ‘song of the universe’ to find the recipient…

Do we choose to accept these feelings of wickedness that cloud our aura and reinforce the nasty comment we had heard from a neighbour, friend or dear one? Do we allow it to overwrite who we truly are… and believe we are terrible and that people are against us? Do we allow the words and thoughts to hit our heart like an arrow, sending us into a panic attack and a journey of self-pity?

Or do we choose not to accept these feelings of wickedness, knowing our own magnificence, our confidence and self-worth and like a boomerang the words and thoughts are immediately ‘returned to speaker’…

Sometimes we turn on ourself though and with a destructive attitude and words of doom there is hardly any resistance and within a short time we find ourself wallowing in self-pity…

Until we find the time to feel our feelings, explore the energy, connect and listen to our inner guidance and understand that to love ourself means taking responsibility for ourself, for our attitudes and choose a journey that strengthens us, makes us feel good and shine brightly…

We have to understand that the sorrier we feel for ourself, the worse our life becomes…  Self-pity makes our life worse, but in every moment we always have a choice whether to make our life better or worse… 

©Barbara Franken… Inspiring New Energy Consciousness…

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3 thoughts on “Self Pity vs Self Love…

  1. Pingback: No pity: Women who lie shouldn't get sympathy or pity from their men.

  2. Barbara, It is very important to learn to accept ourselves for who we really are, not trying to pretend to be someone we think others want us to be. Very inspiring post. Thanks for visiting my blog!

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